Pete (The Virtual Vicar)

I am working on a book about happiness, in the course of which I commissioned a couple short articles by people from different backgrounds.  They were asked the question, "who are the happiest people?"  Here is part of a piece of writing answering that question from the point of view of a Nigerian.  As you can see, the author notes that Nigerians are thought of as being happy. "Nigerians have been referred to as the happiest people in the world, an irony given that almost two thirds of the population live under a dollar a day. Is there something in our culture that makes us live a happy life? I’ll leave that to the experts to decide. I will point out a deep belief in destiny, my people call it akalaka, and a certain willingness to accept that destiny. Perhaps this is where we draw strength and hope from. Perhaps it is from our ever willing and ever teeming legion of religious leaders promising us that tomorrow will be better and urging us to believe against all possi

We are to tell people that we are Christians, be up front about it.  And to offer to pray for healing when that’s needed. We are nothing less than Jesus’s representatives on earth.  He wants us to get to know people on his behalf. " Then he sent them to tell about Jesus’s kingdom and to heal the sick" Luke 9:2 There was once a man who had been feeling down for so long that he finally decided to seek the aid of a psychiatrist. He went there, lay on the couch, spilled his guts then waited for the profound wisdom of the psychiatrist to make him feel better. The psychiatrist asked me a few questions, took some notes then sat thinking in silence for a few minutes. Then he gave his diagnosis: "I think your problem is low self-esteem. It is very common among losers." Sometimes we all  feel we are not achieving enough, or that nobody likes us.  If only we had a better job or a better car.  Or if only we were better at exams or better dressed or more popular.